The Redeemed Man
The Redeemed Man Podcast features real conversations for real men—honest dialogue that dives into the challenges, doubts, and victories shaping our lives. Hosted by Nate Dewberry, along with Redeemed founder Paul Amos, the podcast brings in voices from all walks of life to explore topics like anxiety, addiction, relationships, leadership, and spiritual growth. As part of The Redeemed’s mission to build a Christ-centered community through authentic connection, meaningful conversations, and shared experiences, each episode offers biblical wisdom and practical encouragement to help men walk with purpose in today’s world.
The Redeemed Man
A Covenant, Not a Contract with Rebekah and Gabe Lyons
Over the course of 28 years of marriage, Rebekah and Gabe Lyons have learned a lot—about not taking their own opinions and preferences too seriously; about the need to understand each other’s pasts; and about the hidden gifts that even negative emotions can offer us. Having compiled many of those lessons into a new book titled The Fight for Us, Rebekah and Gabe talk with Nate Dewberry this week about those and many other marriage topics, including how to keep minor differences of opinion from snowballing into big fights—and what husbands can do when they hear the dreaded “I just don’t think we’re connecting” from their wives.
Segments/chapters
0:00 How Rebekah and Gabe met—and what they know now that they wish they’d known then
5:27 What prompted them to write The Fight for Us
9:13 Working on yourselves individually so that you’re stronger as a couple
17:47 Advice for husbands who’ve been told “We’re just not connecting”
22:07 What it means to “choose covenant over consumerism”
26:29 The cultural “headwinds” against marriage, and how we can counteract them
30:32 Closing thoughts: How community has aided Rebekah and Gabe’s marriage
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